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Tuesday, 29 September 2015

Women who can't remember night before should speak to rape counsellor, says DPP

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Alison Saunders, the head of the Crown Prosecution Service, urges women who wake up in a man's bed with no recollection of what happened to them to seek professional advicE










Director of Public Prosecutions Alison Saunders
Director of Public Prosecutions Alison Saunders Photo: Felix Clay/Eyevine
Women who wake up in a man’s bed with no recollection of the night before should seek advice from a rape counsellor instead of going direct to the police, the Director of Public Prosecutions has said.
Alison Saunders, the head of the Crown Prosecution Service, said it was important for women to speak to a professional adviser to establish if they had been the victim of a sexual offence.
Teenagers and the 55 to 59 age group were less likely to be sympathetic to sex attack victims who had been drinking or flirting The CPS has issued new guidelines on consent  Photo: Alamy
“Consent has to be given but, equally, there has to be an offence there,” she told the BBC’s Victoria Derbyshire programme.
“If they can’t remember what’s happened I might go to a support group and ask for some help and talk it through with somebody."


It’s not for the man to prove his innocence, it’s for us to prove his guilt.
Alison Saunders, the Director of Public Prosecutions
Asked if a woman who could not remember whether she had consented to sex should not automatically report the incident as a crime, Mrs Saunders said: “I’m saying she should think about it and maybe talk to some support groups.
“If she thinks there may have been an offence she should certainly talk to the police.”
The DPP was not confining her comments to so-called stranger rapes because the CPS has repeatedly made clear that any sexual intercourse without consent can be an offence, including those inside a relationship.
Mrs Saunders added: “It’s not for the man to prove his innocence, it’s for us to prove his guilt.

“We would look at that and see if there’s enough evidence to take it before the court.
“We would normally look at other evidence of how drunk someone was – if we’ve got CCTV evidence of someone falling out of a nightclub looking incapacitated, for example.”
Mrs Saunders' comments came as the CPS launched a new social media campaign encouraging members of the public to contribute their definitions of consent - under the hashtag #ConsentIs - in conjunction with groups including Rape Crisis and the End Violence against Women Coalition.
Earlier this year the CPS issued new guidelines to police setting out how they should treat the issue of sexual consent.
The law already states consent must be given fully and freely, but the new guidance told officers to look at a wider context.
For example, it said behaviour such as staying silent or using contraception did not indicate a partner had given consent to intercourse.
The CPS said it would help dispel "myths and stereotypes" about rape.
Mrs Saunders also said Scotland Yard had "overstepped the mark" by describing the claims of a witness who claims he was sexually abused by VIPs as "credible and true".
The comments were made last December by a senior officer leading the force's Operation Midland investigation into claims of a Westminster paedophile ring.

Nasa scientists find evidence of flowing water on Mars

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Researchers say discovery of stains from summertime flows down cliffs and crater walls increases chance of finding life on red planet
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Nasa reveals images of water on Mars
Liquid water runs down canyons and crater walls over the summer months on Mars, according to researchers who say the discovery raises the chances of being home to some form of life.
The trickles leave long, dark stains on the Martian terrain that can reach hundreds of metres downhill in the warmer months, before they dry up in the autumn as surface temperatures drop.
Images taken from the Mars orbit show cliffs, and the steep walls of valleys and craters, streaked with summertime flows that in the most active spots combine to form intricate fan-like patterns.
Scientists are unsure where the water comes from, but it may rise up from underground ice or salty aquifers, or condense out of the thin Martian atmosphere.
“There is liquid water today on the surface of Mars,” Michael Meyer, the lead scientist on Nasa’s Mars exploration programme, told the Guardian. “Because of this, we suspect that it is at least possible to have a habitable environment today.”
The water flows could point Nasa and other space agencies towards the most promising sites to find life on Mars, and to landing spots for future human missions where water can be collected from a natural supply.
“Mars is not the dry, arid planet that we thought of in the past,” said Nasa’s Jim Green. “Liquid water has been found on Mars.”
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Nasa announce that there are watery flows on the surface of Mars during the red planet’s summer months.
Some of the earliest missions to Mars revealed a planet with a watery past. Pictures beamed back to Earth in the 1970s showed a surface crossed by dried-up rivers and plains once submerged beneath vast ancient lakes. Earlier this year, Nasa unveiled evidence of an ocean that might have covered half of the planet’s northern hemisphere in the distant past.
Dark narrow streaks called recurring slope lineae emanate out of the walls of Garni crater on Mars.
But occasionally, Mars probes have found hints that the planet might still be wet. Nearly a decade ago, Nasa’s Mars Global Surveyor took pictures of what appeared to be water bursting through a gully wall and flowing around boulders and other rocky debris. In 2011, the high-resolution camera on Nasa’s Mars Reconnaissance Orbiter captured what looked like little streams flowing down crater walls from late spring to early autumn. Not wanting to assume too much, mission scientists named the flows “recurring slope lineae” or RSL.
Researchers have now turned to another instrument on board the Mars Reconnaissance Orbiter to analyse the chemistry of the mysterious RSL flows. Lujendra Ojha, of Georgia Institute of Technology in Atlanta, and his colleagues used a spectrometer on the MRO to look at infrared light reflected off steep rocky walls when the dark streaks had just begun to appear, and when they had grown to full length at the end of the Martian summer.
Writing in the journal Nature Geosciences, the team describes how it found infra-red signatures for hydrated salts when the dark flows were present, but none before they had grown. The hydrated salts – a mix of chlorates and perchlorates – are a smoking gun for the presence of water at all four sites inspected: the Hale, Palikir and Horowitz craters, and a large canyon called Coprates Chasma.
“These may be the best places to search for extant life near the surface of Mars,” said Alfred McEwen, a planetary geologist at the University of Arizona and senior author on the study. “While it would be very important to find evidence of ancient life, it would be difficult to understand the biology. Current life would be much more informative.”
The flows only appear when the surface of Mars rises above -23C. The water can run in such frigid conditions because the salts lower the freezing point of water, keeping it liquid far below 0C.
“The mystery has been, what is permitting this flow? Presumably water, but until now, there has been no spectral signature,” Meyer said. “From this, we conclude that the RSL are generated by water interacting with perchlorates, forming a brine that flows downhill.”
John Bridges, a professor of planetary science at the University of Leicester, said the study was fascinating, but might throw up some fresh concerns for space agencies. The flows could be used to find water sources on Mars, making them prime spots to hunt for life, and to land future human missions. But agencies were required to do their utmost to avoid contaminating other planets with microbes from Earth, making wet areas the most difficult to visit. “This will give them lots to think about,” he said.
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For now, researchers are focused on learning where the water comes from. Porous rocks under the Martian surface might hold frozen water that melts in the summer months and seeps up to the surface.
Another possibility is that highly concentrated saline aquifers are dotted around beneath the surface, not as pools of water, but as saturated volumes of gritty rock. These could cause flows in some areas, but cannot easily explain water seeping down from the top of crater walls.
A third possibility, and one favoured by McEwen, is that salts on the Martian surface absorb water from the atmosphere until they have enough to run downhill. The process, known as deliquescence, is seen in the Atacama desert, where the resulting damp patches are the only known place for microbes to live.
“It’s a fascinating piece of work,” Bridges said. “Our view of Mars is changing, and we’ll be discussing this for a long time to come.”

Monday, 28 September 2015

'I fight in crop tops and fishnets': Meet Dubai’s only female Muslim wrestler

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The Arab world’s first female pro wrestler talks to Kate Dobinson about fighting men in a conservative country and how her mum sews 'modest' crop tops










Joelle Hunter in action at a Dubai Pro Wrestling Event Photo: Soura Photography

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Wrestling is all about nerve. Stage presence, trash talk and storytelling almost trump athleticism in this heavily scripted theatre. Teenager Joelle Hunter, a pseudonym for Gheeda Chamasaddine, already cultivates a strong image as the Arab world’s first female pro wrestler.
She’s the classic underdog; a 5ft 4in woman - who, despite her diminutive stature, choke-slams men triple her size - not to mention she's a Muslim from Saudi Arabia sporting crop tops and fishnets.
But there’s more to Joelle than shock value or teen rebellion. Eyes framed by winged liner hold an unflinching gaze as she swivels, bare legs swinging, in a cream office chair backstage at HM Fitness, home to Dubai’s only Pro Wrestling Academy.
The sound of thwacks and grunts reverberate from the gym next door, peppered with cheers from an adjacent bowling alley. Tiny, and swamped by an oversized black Nike training jacket concealing cotton hot pants, Joelle finishes tucking into a plastic lunchbox of white rice before her second of three weekly training sessions.
The 17-year-old or ‘Bloody Bunny’ as she is known to her Twitter followers, sporting tongue ring and labret piercing just beneath the lip, with glossy ringlets tucked firmly behind a black plug in her ear, hopes to be the face of a new generation of fiercely independent Muslim girls growing up in an increasingly cosmopolitan United Arab Emirates (UAE).

Expatriates make up 84 per cent of the diverse population and yet, the UAE is built on an undeniably conservative, Islamic bedrock. Hence why when a woman throws Arab men around the ring, it is considered ‘a little outrageous’. She agrees: "We have our traditions and our culture and this [my sport] is a little bit odd to be honest, because this girl walks out and beats guys up, and the Arab culture is that the man is always the masculine figure and you have to listen to what the guy says.
"There’s so many people that were like 'you’re too pretty to wrestle and what are people going to think of you later on?' But I don’t care what people think of me, this is for me and if I don’t do it now then it’s never going to happen in the Middle East. You shouldn’t let anyone be a burden in your life, not even your parents."

Dress codes

Although her single mother Nihaya Haimour initially expected Joelle to grow into a ‘girlie girl’, she now watches World Wrestling Entertainment (WWE) shows with her only daughter and sews her costumes – albeit as ‘plain’ as possible and a world away from the hypersexualised WWE ‘Divas’ such as Michelle McCool - shown on the Middle East’s recently launched 24 hour programming schedule.

"My ring attire is very basic. I don’t have anything fancy because I respect the law here," says Hunter. "In America you’ve got girls with everything out and to me that’s not what I’m trying to portray. I want to create something different. That’s why my attire is very plain. It shouts out, 'hey look at me and not my body'.
"Actually, my mum made my outfits for me – except for the fact that I bought shorts. Honestly, I had so many old clothes in my wardrobe that I don’t even wear anymore so I made most of them into my crop tops. It’s hard to move in the ring with a lot of glitter and sparkles so you gotta wear something that helps you avoid wardrobe malfunctions."
Ah yes, the fights. Hunter's feud with ‘The Vigilante’, 19-year-old Michel Nassif from Lebanon, is ramped up for the gym’s low budget fight nights "and I want to take her down," says Michel, aware of the story he’s promoting.


You’re basically torturing them slowly until they’re like 'okay, okay stop'.
"The way she fights, she fights like a man. If I go into the ring now I can do any moves, she can take it. That’s good. But if you want me to be honest, many other people found it hard to go in the ring with her, I on the other hand didn’t because she’s getting a lot of media attention and it’s putting me in the picture as well."
The setup is undeniably amateur, but as Hunter jumps between the ropes and roars “COME ON” before performing a sequence of strikes, strength-based holds and throws and acrobatic jumps, she is utterly convincing when pinning her hairier, weightier opponent to the floor.
The fighting style is submissive, she says. "Kind of similar to Mixed Martial Arts but you choke them or put them in submission so their arm is crunched all the way to the back as if it’s about to break. So you’re basically torturing them slowly until they’re like 'okay, okay stop,'" she says, laughing.
"You’ve [also] got the powerhouse, where you lift and throw people around so you typically get very big guys like 200lbs. You rarely find girls that are powerhouses, but there was Chyna [two-time WWF Intercontinental Champion] but she was huge.

"You’ve got high fliers, who basically drop off the ropes, and then you’ve got technical for people mainly in the ring. Lastly there’s dirty where you claw people in the eyes and give them low blows, that’s for bad guys."

One of the guys

Thirty-one-year-old Caleb Hall is Hunter’s world class coach, hailing from Kentucky and trained by WWE legend Rip Rogers. He says the 20-strong male squad didn’t bat an eyelid when Hunter walked into the gym 11 months ago.
"The other guys are happy to train with her and just treat her like one of the guys and most of them don’t go easy on her. A few of them hold back and I say 'hey treat her just the same' and they do," he says.
It was a bit awkward at first, admits Hunter: "I didn’t know anyone and I thought, like when I walked in there would be other girls in there, they’re gonna be mean. But everyone was surprisingly very supportive – there were no girls it was all guys."


You can be anything you want, no matter what your gender is.
Despite dreams of flying to America – WWE does not stage any female events in the UAE, due to anxiety about cultural insensitivity – Hunter’s first priority is to find other ring sisters.
"I have bigger responsibilities right now, in creating a female fighting division. Because if I leave Dubai behind without a girl’s division then that’s unfair; that’s me being ungrateful. I feel like it’s my duty to create the female wrestling division here."
As I walk outside onto Meydan Road the world’s tallest skyscraper the Burj Khalifa punctures the cloudless sky - a beautiful symbol of Hunter's audacity:
"You can be anything you want, no matter what your gender is," she says to me as I leave. "Nothing’s impossible."

10 Creepy Horror Movies Inspired by True Stories

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The Amityville Horror (1979)

Amityville Horror 10 Creepy Horror Movies Inspired by True Stories
The original 1979 The Amityville Horror, starring James Brolin and Margot Kidder, is the classic haunted house horror flick, which was given a not-so-classic remake in 2005. The movie is actually based on a 1976 book titled The Amityville Horror: A True Story, which claimed to tell the true story of George and Kathy Lutz’s 28 days in an allegedly haunted house. According to them, their large dream home on the coast of Long Island turned on them not too long after moving day, when demonic forces began terrorizing their family.
Now, it’s true that, a little over a year before the Lutzes moved into the house on 112 Ocean Avenue, Ronald DeFeo Jr. shot and killed his entire family – six people total – inside the house. The Lutzes purchased the house furnished with the DeFeo’s furniture, and actually did have a priest come and bless the house prior to moving into it.
But that’s where the story gets a little murky. Some evidence suggests the Lutzes began shopping around for a publishing deal while still in the house and attempted to get publicity for the haunting once a book was imminent. Notably, paranormal investigators Lorraine and Ed Warren, who were also the investigators behind several other “true story” haunting films, claimed the house was plagued by malevolent spirits. Many have suggested the whole thing was a scam, and interestingly, no one who has lived at 112 Ocean Avenue since the Lutzes has reported any strange happenings.
A new film in the franchise, Amityville: The Awakening, will hit theaters next year.

The Haunting in Connecticut

The Haunting in Connecticut  10 Creepy Horror Movies Inspired by True StoriesAnother haunted house flick, The Haunting in Connecticut is about another family who failed to check into the history of their house prior to moving: the Campbells relocate to a home that previously served as a funeral parlor, where the owner’s son served as a demonic messenger and provided a gateway for spiritual entities. The story is supposedly based on the experience of the Snedeker family, who also worked with paranormal investigators Lorraine and Ed Warren. Horror novelist Ray Garton was hired to document the tale his 1992 book, In a Dark Place: The Story of a True Haunting, which became the basis for the movie.
But in subsequent interviews, Garton has claimed that he made up some of the details. While the Snedekers and the Warrens have maintained that the house was truly haunted, there’s obviously no proof that anything supernatural occurred during the family’s two year stay in the house. No other family who has lived in the house has come forward with any ghost stories.

The Exorcism of Emily Rose (2005)

The Exorcism of Emily Rose 10 Creepy Horror Movies Inspired by True StoriesThe Exorcism of Emily Rose follows a lawyer who takes on the case of a priest who is charged with homicide after he performs an exorcism on Emily Rose (Jennifer Carpenter) and she dies. The story mostly takes place in a courtroom, with Emily Rose’s possession being told through courtroom testimony and flashbacks. But the possession and the subsequent trial is actually a fictionalized version of the possession of a German woman named Anneliese Michel.
During the 1970s, she was believed to have been possessed by six or more demons. Michel began experiencing shaking and the inability to control her body at the age of 16 By the age of 21, her parents were seeking pastors to perform an exorcism. Two years later, the church finally granted permission for the exorcism and at the age of 23, Michel died from malnutrition and dehydration. Prosecutors charged Michel’s parents and the two priests who performed the exorcism with negligent homicide.
The case has actually inspired two other movies as well, the German drama Requim and Anneliese: The Exorcist Tapes.

The Texas Chain Saw Massacre (1974)

The Texas Chain Saw Massacre 10 Creepy Horror Movies Inspired by True StoriesOne of the first great slasher films, 1974’s Texas Chain Saw Massacre follows a group of teens who end up on a farm belonging to a family of cannibals. Leatherface (Gunnar Hansen) torments the teens, occasionally with a chainsaw, as he tries to off them, one-by-one. The popular franchise has spawned four sequels, a remake, and a prequel. The latest in the franchise, Leatherface, will be released next year, and it will follow the teen years of Jackson Sawyer – the boy who one day becomes the skin-wearing serial killer we all know and, uh… love?
When it came out in 1974, it was marketed as a “true story,” despite the fact that Leatherface didn’t actually exist and commit a series of murders in Texas. But while it might not be based on a true story, it was inspired by the real-life serial killer Ed Gein, who created a “woman suit” out of skins of exhumed female corpses and murdered at least two women. He similarly served as the inspiration for Norman Bates in Psycho and Buffalo Bill in The Silence of the Lambs.

The Girl Next Door (2007)

The Girl Next Door 10 Creepy Horror Movies Inspired by True StoriesBased on Jack Ketchum’s 1989 novel of the same name, The Girl Next Door follows two young girls who must move into their aunt’s house after the death of their parents. Unfortunately, the aunt (Blanche Baker) is a sadistic psychopath and the neighborhood boys seem content to allow both girls to be tortured and sexually abused. It’s a movie so disturbing that you can’t get it out of your head, much less believe it could actually be real.
But it’s actually the fictionalized version of the torture and death of an Indiana teen named Sylvia Likens in 1965. Her and her sister had been left in the care of family friend Gertrude Baniszewski, who soon began taking out her financial troubles on Likens. Her children and several other neighborhood children would beat Likens, tie her up, force feed her, and sexually abuse her. After being tied up in the basement, she died at the age of sixteen from shock, malnutrition, and a brain hemorrhage.

Compliance (2012)

Compliance 10 Creepy Horror Movies Inspired by True StoriesCompliance is the story of a fast-food worker subjected to sexual humiliation and psychological abuse at the hands of a prank-caller, who pretends to be a police officer and calls Sandra (Ann Dowd), the restaurant manager, to complain that Becky (Dreama Walker), an employee, stole from a customer. The film may be more thriller than horror movie, but once Sandra begins taking orders from the stranger, which begins with a humiliating strip search and gets worse from there. The resulting tale, a warning against blindly following authority, is downright chilling. What the film lacks in gore and sudden frights, it makes up for in emotional trauma and horror at how far some people will go to avoid conflict.
While watching it, it’s impossible to think anyone could possibly be so naive, yet the movie is actually inspired by a real incident that occurred at a McDonald’s in 2004. A prank-caller began calling various rural locations in over 30 states, pretending to be an officer and asking managers to conduct strip searches on female employees. During one such call, the manager of a New Hampshire McDonald’s detained 18-year-old Louise Ogborn for over three hours. During that time, she was stripped naked, forced to dance, and ordered to perform various crude acts by the prank-caller, all of which was caught on surveillance cameras.

The Strangers (2008)

The Strangers 10 Creepy Horror Movies Inspired by True StoriesA movie about what happens when your romantic trip goes awry, The Strangers follows a young couple who are terrorized by three masked strangers while staying at a remote getaway. The unknown assailants destroy all means of escape and outside communication before the violent invasion, trapping the couple in the house. It’s a simple premise that could happen to anyone, so it makes sense that the trailer proclaimed it was inspired by true events.
However, the production notes for the film discredit the claim slightly by clarifying that the seeds of the story were sparked during Bryan Bertino’s youth: “That part of the story came to me from a childhood memory. As a kid, I lived in a house on a street in the middle of nowhere. One night, while our parents were out, somebody knocked on the front door and my little sister answered it. At the door were some people asking for somebody that didn’t live there. We later found out that these people were knocking on doors in the area and, if no one was home, breaking into the houses. In The Strangers, the fact that someone is at home does not deter the people who’ve knocked on the front door; it’s the reverse.” So, despite the “inspired by true events” claim, it’s almost entirely a work of fiction

Eaten Alive (1977)

Eaten Alive 10 Creepy Horror Movies Inspired by True StoriesFrom Tobe Hooper (the same guy behind Texas Chain Saw Massacre), Eaten Alive also takes place in Texas, where a hotel owner kills off anyone who stands in his way and then feeds them to a crocodile he keeps as a pet. A curious little slasher flick, it stars Neville Brand as the crazed hotel owner, who seems to get crazier and crazier as the movie progresses. It’s Hooper’s sophomore effort, following Chainsaw Massacre, and while it’s less well-known, the creepy hotel set and effects benefited from a larger budget.
And like Chainsaw Massacre, the film is actually loosely based on a real life serial killer – a Texas man named Joe Ball. Ball owned a bar in a very small Texas town with an alligator pit in the back. He definitely charged customers a fee to view the alligators eating live cats and dogs, but he also possibly used the alligators to dispose the bodies of 20 women he murdered. When authorities approached Ball about the women who had disappeared, he shot himself with a handgun. There’s no concrete evidence Ball fed his victims to an alligator, but a handyman who worked for Ball led officers to two bodies he claimed he help Ball dispose of.

Wolf Creek (2005)

Wolf Creek 10 Creepy Horror Movies Inspired by True StoriesWolf Creek is an Australian horror film about the dangers of hitchhiking and a dream vacation gone terribly, terribly wrong. When three friends get stranded in remote Australia on their way to a hiking trip, a bushman offers them assistance. But the hikers’ thankfulness is short lived when they wake up bound, gagged, and drugged. It’s an incredibly gruesome film and was criticized at its release for it’s depiction of violence against women. But it’s success in theaters earned it a sequel in 2012.
Upon release, Wolf Creek was marketed as “based on true events,” leading many to assume the story was entirely factual. However, it was actually based on a combination of murders from around Australia. The 2001 abduction of Peter Falconio and attack against his girlfriend by Bradley John Murdoch are said to influence the film, which was scheduled to be released during Murdoch’s trial. The court in the Northern Territory actually enjoined the film’s release to prevent it from influencing the jury. But John Jarratt, who plays the crazed bushman, used Ivan Milat, known as “the backpack killer,” as inspiration for the role.

The Entity (1981)

The Entity 10 Creepy Horror Movies Inspired by True StoriesAnother supernatural horror movie, The Entity follows Carla Moran as she is attacked by an invisible assailant. The film opens with her being violently raped, and the sexual and physical abuse continues for much of the film. Convinced by friends and family that she is losing her mind, she seeks help from parapsychologists, who discover there are supernatural forces at work.
The movie is based on the book of the same name by Frank De Felitta, which was inspired by the real story of Doris Bither who lived in California. She approached some parapsychologists after what she believed herself to be the victim of a “spectral rape.” At the time, there wasn’t any evidence, but she did occasionally develop bruises around her body and inner thighs. Of course, there’s no way to prove one way or the other whether Bither actually had a malevolent entity following her around. Some of her story was corroborated by family and friends, including her eldest son, who said he was also thrown back by an invisible force after attempting to assist his mother.

Sunday, 27 September 2015

"I love you" in 10 different languages

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Let’s face it — there’s a reason why Shakespeare is regarded as one of the greatest playwrights and poets in history. His ability to praise the heart and its emotional power has driven the romance entertainment industry for generations, and rightly so. If he taught us one thing, beyond his countless poems and plays highlighting love in all its forms, it was that there is certainly more than one way to say “I love you.”
 "I love you" in 10 different languages.
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Arabic

Ana uhibbuka (Ana Oo-hey-book-ah)[to a man]

Ana uhibbuki (Ana Oo-hey-book-ee)[to a woman]

Note: This is the standard Arabic way to say "I love you." Different dialects and contexts decipher how this phrase is altered.
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Chinese (Cantonese)

Ngo Ngoi Ney (Gno Gnoi Neh)

Note: Pronounce Ngo like "Gno-" in "Gnocchi." Pronounce Ney like "Na" in "Nation."
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Chinese (Mandarin)

Wo-Ai-Ni (Woe I Knee)

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French

Je t'aime (Juh-tem)

Note: Pronounce Je like "g" in "mirage."
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German

Ich liebe dich (Ish leeba dish)

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Italian

Ti amo (Tee ah-mo)

Note: Italian, Portuguese and Spanish all stem from the common denominator of Latin. Just the word, "love," is amore (Ah-Mor-A) in Italian, while Portuguese and Spanish are both amor (Ah-Mor). It's important to remember so they are not interchanged.
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Japanese

Aishiteru (I-Shi-Teh-Doo)

Note: Pronounce "Teh" like "Tay" in "Taylor."
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Portuguese

Amo-te (Ah-mo Teh)

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Russian

Ya tebya lyublyu (Yeah Teh-byah Loo-bloo)

Note: Pronounce blyu like "blue."
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Spanish

Te amo (Teh Ah-mo)

Note: Another way to say "I love you" in a less traditional way is to say, Te Quiero (Teh-KeyA-dO), which translates to "I want you," although it is not necessarily sexual. It is more affirmative.

People Are Posting Pictures with Black Dots on Their Hands for a Very Important Reason

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A simple black dot on a person's hand might hint towards something much bigger. The Telegraph reports that a social media campaign is underway to make the dot a silent, but powerful, signal about domestic abuse.
"The Black Dot Campaign is to enable victims who cannot ask for help verbally to ask for help with a simple black dot and people recognize this and help," the campaign's Facebook page reads. "This is a campaign to help the most vulnerable victims of domestic violence." The idea is that if a victim puts a dot on their hand, loved ones and survivor groups will recognize the cry for help and provide the assistance he or she so desperately needs. Some people have also posted their photos in solidarity, or as survivors who have already escaped abuse. 

The campaign started earlier this month, and has already reached more than five million people on social media. Some people have reportedly criticized the campaign for spreading the word without educating support organizations first, and for potentially putting victims in danger if their abusers see the dot. But the founder of the group, who has remained anonymous, has said the campaign has already helped many people, and abuse victims often know what their abuser's triggers are and whether the dot could be dangerous for them.
"It can be very difficult and dangerous for victims of domestic abuse to speak out about what is happening to them, due to fear of what the perpetrator will do, and fear of not being believed," Polly Neate from Women's Aid told The Huffington Post. "The Black Dot could help some victims to communicate their abuse and it is useful to have a range of options because women's circumstances vary greatly."

Teen Releases Balloon with Letter to Late Father and Gets an Incredible Response Back

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After pancreatic cancer tragically took the life of Saige Seibold's father on May 13th, 2015, she and her widowed mother, Sandy, decided to remember him in a beautiful way on Father's Day. The pair released a "#1 Dad" balloon with an attached letter at the site of his grave—and what happened afterwards will bring tears to your eyes.
The letter asked, "If you receive this [balloon], please make [Seibold's] day by sending a response telling her who and where you are from. Thank you in advance!"

"We thought the idea of the balloon, sending the balloon to heaven to her dad, was a good idea," Sandy told the NBC.
After a tricky ascent—​the balloon ribbons initially got caught in a power line—​a gust of wind blew the balloon and the note skywards. Seibold and her mother then left the cemetery to run some errands and return home, which was 25 miles away in Cement, OK.
But when the mother and daughter arrived to their house, Seibold discovered an unbelievable gift waiting for them. Tangled in the fence running along a pasture where she often worked with her father was the very same balloon and note she and her mother had just sent off. The message in her father's honor had flown straight home, the very same day.
Seibold​ explained, "I think we started crying because it was just like a message from him...It has given us a lot of peace."

Miracle Baby Born With Half His Skull Missing Beats The Odds to Celebrate His First Birthday

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When Jaxon Strong was born with half of his brain and skull missing, his doctors predicted that he'd have just days to live. But one year later, this little guy has truly defied the odds.  

Jaxon's mom, Brittany Buell, was told when she was pregnant that "Jax's" brain had been severely malformed and warned her that he was unlikely to survive the pregnancy. Though physicians gave Brittany, and her husband Brandon, 30, the option to terminate, they didn't give up hope.
"I was devastated. It was heart-breaking because something I always wanted my whole life was happening, but then I was told there was a possibility it might be a stillborn," Brittany told the Daily Mail
But last August 27, Jax was born weighing four pounds. 
"It was very emotional. I remember holding him on day two and listening to the doctors say my son would probably never walk, never talk, never know when he's hungry, or never hear or see. They really did not expect him to make it​," Brandon said. 
"​We did everything we could to give him a fighting chance and all he's done since being born is fight right back," he added. 
Jax, who has since been diagnosed with ​Microhydranencephaly​, just celebrated his first birthday. 
"It is always in the back of my mind. I'm very aware that today maybe his last day. I'm aware tomorrow he may not be here," Brittany shared. But she says she feels blessed by the support she's been given. 
Jaxon now has over 90,000 likes on Facebook as well as a GoFundMe page, set up by Brandon's colleagues, which has raised over $50,000 so Brittany can afford to stay home and take care of Jaxon. 
"He thrives with his mom, that one-to-one stimulation that no other therapy can give. If we can keep Brittany at home, giving him that 24/7 care is truly priceless and that's what his account allows us to do," Brandon explained. 
"It's all been so overwhelming in a positive way because we can't go anywhere without someone stopping us, and saying, 'hey, what's your story?' or they would have seen his picture and say, 'hey, look it's Jax Strong!' – his nickname! It's truly incredible the amount of people he has had an impact on," Brittany said.

Saturday, 26 September 2015

Mother Says She Slashed the Throats of Her Three Children to Stop Them from Crying

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Christina Booth from Olympia, WA, is being held on $3 million dollar bail with three counts of attempted murder after stabbing her three young children.
According to the Daily Mail, Christina says her husband, Special Forces soldier Thomas Booth, doesn't help with the children and gets irritated when they make noise. When their six-month-old twins and two-year-old daughter started crying Sunday night, the mother slit their throats in an attempt to silence them.
"My babies won't calm down," Christina said in her 911 call to police after stabbing them. Later, her husband came on the phone and explained that the babies were bleeding and needed an ambulance.
During her interview with authorities, detectives wrote: "Christina said she knew if she killed all of

the kids, the house would be quiet for Thomas." The mother is on medication for postpartum depression.
christina boothThe couple had inconsistent statements in their interviews, but it's expected that Thomas will not have any charges brought against him.
All the children are now in protective custody, and in stable condition at a local hospital.

18-Year-Old Model With Down Syndrome Will Walk at New York Fashion Week, Change the World

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Madeline Stuart, an 18-year-old Australian model with Down syndrome, first went viral earlier this year after her stunning photos were posted on Facebook. Since then, Stuart and her mom Rosanne have been fielding international modeling requests. Most recently, Stuart signed to walk in New York Fashion Week with MODA in association with the Christopher Reeve Foundation. She has also been working with handbag company EverMaya and will be the face of a new line of handbags (all named after her!) launching Friday. Rosanne spoke to Cosmopolitan.com about how her daughter's modeling is changing people's perceptions about intellectual disabilities and what Madeline's impact on the world will be.
Congratulations on New York Fashion Week! What a big deal.
Yes! There's a lot of big deals happening at the moment, it's ridiculous!
What was your first reaction to hearing the NYFW news?
When we were asked to do New York Fashion Week, it didn't surprise me. I don't think anything really surprises me anymore. She's been asked to do a lot of stuff and I was hoping to she'd get asked to do NYFW but I assumed it would happen. I hope that doesn't sound too pretentious.
No, that's so exciting. It is very exciting and it's going to take her from one level to the next. I know [American Horror Story actress who also has Down syndrome] Jamie Brewer did it in February, but she is a movie star, she's not a model. With Madeline, this is her career, so I think it's going to be a great platform for her.
When Madeline first went viral, she called Brewer an inspiration. Have they since met?
We did meet Jamie in L.A.
How was that?
It was great. She's a lovely young lady. She's very high-functioning, a lot higher functioning than Maddy. She's just beautiful. I don't think I've ever met someone with Down syndrome who isn't beautiful. They just have the most amazing personalities. She was so excited to meet Maddy; she'd been following her on Twitter for months. One of the first people to follow Madeline on Twitter was that supermodel Karlie Kloss. Isn't that amazing?
Maddy's social media accounts have grown exponentially since they were created in May. How do you explain that kind of growth?
There hadn't been anyone who chased this dream, whereas Madeline really chased it. She wanted this and she worked hard for it. I've done everything I can on the business end to get her to this stage. Now it's just her working her charm.
Hair by Yvette Rey, makeup by Mandy Phan and Jessica Chu.
Do you also think the world was ready for someone like Madeline to be in the spotlight?
The world was ready. The world wants to be inclusive, it just hasn't had anyone on such a platform that they were able to do it easily. I remember when I was a child at school, people were homophobic and things like that, and now it's cool to be gay! Imagine in 10 years what society will be like for people with disabilities. It's not going to be how it is now, it's going to be the norm. It's probably going to be cool to hang out with someone who has an intellectual disability because you know that they care more about emotions than they do about the materialistic world. Everyone's going to want that friend to teach them what true love is.
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Where do you most see enthusiasm for Maddy's work?
You can see it with Instagram. It's mainly young people and I see people putting on Madeline's Instagram "Madeline #HairGoals," "Madeline #RelationshipGoals," "Madeline #FigureGoals," "Madeline, oh my god, you're prettier than I am, fashion sense on cue or something like that." This is the next generation! These are young girls who are never going to grow up being discriminatory! When Maddy was born, I can remember walking around the street with people abusing me saying she should be in an institution, and that was 18 years ago!
How has the modeling affected your relationship? It's not about the modeling for me. It's about my daughter being happy. This is about showing the world how easy it is to talk to someone with an intellectual disability, how easy it is to walk up to someone and make them realize they're the same! Like she said to me a minute ago, "Mum, hug," and I jumped into bed and gave her a hug. I put down my work and gave her a hug because that's what she wanted in that moment and that's what I cherish. You don't always get those moments.